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No Additives or Preservatives

This year, I took my first trip to the Holy Land. It was life-changing as well as eye-opening.

In the seats directly in front of me sat three Hasidic Jewish men. You know, with the long black coats and long curls of hair down the sides of their faces. As we flew into the early morning hours, I eventually stopped paying attention to them and watch my in-flight movie, unable to sleep.

Then about 6 AM, things got interesting.

Two of the men in front of me started moving around, as if preparing for something. They opened up their carry on luggage and began fiddling with the contents, which was still obstructed from my view by their seats. 

Then they got up and starting rolling up their sleeves. Out came some long thin leather straps, which they wound round and round their forearms. They went through a process of wrapping each arm, and then putting a small black box about an inch in diameter on their foreheads. These boxes, known as “phylacteries”, were strapped to their foreheads with more leather straps.

After about 20 minutes of this preparation, they began rocking back and forth while standing in their aisle. It was clear to me this was part of a prayer ritual, as they quietly read the prayers from small books. So most of the other passengers were never aware of the prayer meeting going on around them.

By around 7:30 AM, the prayers seemed to subside and they were seated once again. When it was all over, I had watched them for the entire hour and a half, fascinated by their ritual and respectful of their commitment to prayer.

But I also have to admit I felt it was pointless. Why? Because they had taken something as simple as prayer, communicating with God, and made it into a ceremony where the formality would only have made me feel more distant from God. While they clearly respect the “otherness” of God, they also kept Him at the distance of their arms covered in leather straps and small black boxes.

As a baptist by faith tradition, I have a healthy skepticism toward anything that’s not specifically prescribed in the Bible. The one thing we’re known for, by both our adherents and critics as well, is being people “of the book”. We believe the Bible is the one sole authority for our lives. 

So as I watched these men, I couldn’t stop thinking about how none of what they were taking such great pains to do was prescribed in Scripture. None of it was necessary in order to approach God in prayer.

In a world in desperate need to hear from God, they’d constructed enough barriers that an Olympic pole vaulter would have trouble clearing them.

Why do we feel the need to add to what God has done? Do we really think we’re improving on His work?

When I finally arrived in Israel, our tour guide took us to many of the sites anyone would want to visit. I was so excited about teaching on the Beatitudes to our group right on the very spot where they believe Jesus may have taught them. But my excitement was somewhat diminished when we arrived on the mountainside and found it pretty much covered by a parking lot, gift shop, and a huge Catholic church.

We walked past shrine after shrine. But in the midst of all the pageantry and pomp, all I really just wanted to see was the hillside the same way Jesus had seen it. 

We simply can’t seem to resist trying to improve on what God has already done. You know…just like we’ve all done with our own church traditions.

I was raised in the heart of southern church culture: Alabama. There is no better comfort food for me than an old country church. I love the look of them, even the smell of them.

Heck, I even love potato salad and the occasional casserole. 

And yes, I love the old hymns. I have a collection of old hymn books and camp meeting paperback songbooks in my office. I love to play them on the piano so much I recorded a whole CD of them to give to friends.

But when I hear some senior saint complaining they just can’t worship with those new choruses, my blood boils. Why? Because when they said that, they were really saying they loved their hymns more than they loved the Jesus those hymns were singing about.

If you really loved Jesus, you wouldn’t care what kind of song you sang about him! Seriously, the song is just the platter your worship is served upon. 

So if someone served you a first class steak, would you complain about the china pattern on the plate?

When the forms of our worship matter more than the object of our worship, we’re committing idolatry. We betray the fact we love the “way” we do church more than we love the “One” who the church is about.

And I shouldn’t have to warn you what God does to sacred cows that get in His way…

Cow-tipping began all the way back with Moses and the Golden Calf!

There was one spot the guide took us to last week that was different than the rest. He pulled our tour bus over at an unimpressive roadside gate, which led to a simple dirt path.

“This was the main walking route between the Sea of Galilee (where Jesus did so much of His teaching) and Nazareth (Jesus’ hometown). That means this is a route Jesus would have walked on multiple occasions.”

As we strolled down the path, tall rocky cliffs rose up on either side of us. The simple dusty trail wound through the cleavage of the two hillsides. There were no shrines, no churches or chapels. I don’t even remember seeing a marker or sign. But our group found a little gathering area where we sat and shared prayer requests with each other.

A tender peace filled the air as people unburdened themselves. When they asked me as a pastor to pray for the group’s requests, I looked around at the cliffs surrounding us as I spoke. 

I was talking to Jesus now, while looking around at some of the very sights He had seen while on earth. Nothing man-made was covering the view. It was just as He’d seen it.

Wouldn’t it be great if we could just strip away all the things we’ve added to our faith? All the things we’ve come to think are so important, but really just distract us and end up being false idols of our faith?

Wouldn’t it be wonderful to peal all of it back like an onion, until we got to the heart of our faith?

We could strip it all back until there was nothing left but Jesus. No additives or preservatives. Just Him.

To me, that sounds perfect. Because when all the traditions of men have all finally passed away, He is all I really ever needed.

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3 Comments

  • Debbie Gillespie
    Posted May 22, 2019 at 9:20 am

    David, I had these same thoughts and reactions to the many “add-ons” that mankind and religion have left in the Holy Land. Your pictures of the trail that connected the Sea of Galilee and Nazareth are perfect. This quiet, unadulterated site was one of my favorites and I wish we could have spent more time there and found individual places of seclusion to just commune with the Lord. But He was definitely there and I felt His presence.

  • Kathy Walters
    Posted May 22, 2019 at 12:31 pm

    Thank you for this writing. It is SO good. I’ve been to Israel 12 times and planning trip #13 and I do the best I can to find those quiet places whenever possible. I admit that on my very first trip I was a bit abashed to see the churches and such built on important sites as if they needed embellishing or something. However, as I continued to return I found that I could almost “overlook” them to a large degree even though I do enjoy seeing a church I’ve never seen before——–but once is enough. It is the people of Israel that I have come to love so much as I’ve built relationships there.

  • Delos & Yun Thompson
    Posted May 23, 2019 at 7:38 am

    Dave,
    You are so right in all you have said. I too was in amazement at the Jew’s doings as the sat way in front of me! I thought the same thing that you so elegantly described. We will be praying for you! Thank you for adding to our wonderful trip.

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Our dream house was a 120-year old 3-story Victorian home. It was just a few blocks away from one of the loveliest parks in the city and the same distance from the church I pastored. I could literally walk to work, and did so on many mornings. How convenient!

Unlike the other brick houses that lined the streets nearby, this one was painted light yellow and stood apart from the rest. Plaster reliefs of baby angels wrapped around the base of the house. They represented the children of the original owners, making the structure even more unique. It also had a three-car garage at the back of it. Few houses in this older section of town had one as large, and many people resorted to parking on the street. But not us! On just an average salary, we had bought one of the nicest places to live in the area. 

I had always dreamed of owning a Victorian home. I had performed the role of Prof. Henry Higgins from the musical My Fair Lady right before we moved to our new city. So I was primed to live the life of the English gentleman, sipping tea in my beautiful old house. I loved the old wood, the stained glass windows, and our “penthouse suite” for my wife and me on the top floor. We’d be sequestered away from the noise of our little girls playing below us. It all seemed so ideal.

But it turned out to be anything but ideal. Our “Golden House”, as our little girls came to call it, was not so golden. In fact, our dream house almost killed us, quite literally. 

One afternoon I got a call at the church. It was Dawn, my wife, and she was sobbing hysterically. Finally I was able to make out enough of her words to understand what was happening.

“I fell…come home!”

Almost 20 years ago, my wife had been in a bad car accident that crushed her right leg. That ankle couldn’t turn at all. So as I ran the 5 blocks to my home, I knew what had happened.

When I got to the house, I found Dawn in the basement. She was headed to the washer and drier there, and had misjudged a step going down. She hit the concrete floor hard.

After getting her to the hospital, thankfully we learned nothing had been broken. However, that would be just the first of several falls for Dawn down those steps. We eventually moved the washer and drier up to the second floor, which helped a little. But the bottom line was a three-story house with narrow stairways were not meant for a woman who had challenges with mobility.

I also learned having your bedroom on the third-floor is not a good idea for a chubby guy in his mid-50s. There were a few days I wondered if I’d still be alive by the time I reached the top floor. Though I began on the stairway to the bedroom, I might end up on the stairway to heaven…

Then there was the city. Dawn and I always loved culture, restaurants, theater and all the things a great city has to offer. So living there, we felt like kids in a candy store. There was always some new restaurant to explore, always a show playing somewhere, and interesting people living all around us. It seemed ideal.

Except for crime. And taxes. Many cities are big on those, and ours was no exception. We had both in abundance.

One of our regular nightly diversions was watching the notifications on our community’s “Next Door App” alert us to all the recent shootings and hold-ups around us. One of us would hear gunshots, and I’d watch for the posts to pop up. I’d then calculate how close it was to our home. Many were within just a few blocks, some just down the street. 

We would occasionally get notices of some tax we hadn’t paid. Usually, we neglected to pay because the city had neglected to ever send a bill. Then one day, you get a notice you’re being sent to a collections agency, even though you still hadn’t received a bill yourself. 

Once we got a bill for trash pick-up. We were confused because we paid a refuse bill on time every month. But a lady on the phone informed us what we had paid was in fact only the garbage bill. There was completely different bill that was a tax for just having trash pick up available to us in the city. This bill was paying for the “possibility” our trash might be picked up. No kidding.

I’m sure they’re still probably working on a way to collect a tax on our taxes. 

All of this added together was a painful lesson on the difference between perception and reality. After we first moved to that city and were still living in an apartment, I walked down those very streets and fantasized about how wonderful living there would be. When we found the Golden House, we rejoiced and basically cried out, “Here, take our money” to the realtor. 

But the view from the outside of a situation is always much different from the inside. Nothing is ever quite what you expect…with houses, or with life.

The problem with so many of the things we want is it’s too often based on an illusion. We think a thing, a person, or a situation will bring happiness. But happiness is never found in those things outside of us.

Real happiness only happens from the inside out.

There’s an old fashioned Bible word for this foolishness: covetousness. The prohibition against coveting is actually the 10th and final commandment. It’s easily skimmed over in favor of the more R-rated commandments against murder or adultery. Simply wanting your neighbors stuff as opposed to stealing it or killing for it seems like no big deal in comparison.

But coveting is like a powerful drug. The addict never gets enough. Once he gets that one thing he’s obsessed over, he’s disappointed to realize it doesn’t fulfill his needs and he moves on to something more. The new car he’d wanted all his life now sits in the garage most days. She can’t even remember why she bought that purse now. That’s how coveting works: whatever you get, it’s never enough. You’re always left wanting something else, and even more addicted to your desires.

Whatever my eyes desired I did not keep from them. I did not withhold my heart from any pleasure, for my heart rejoiced in all my labor; And this was my reward from all my labor. Then I looked on all the works that my hands had done and on the labor in which I had toiled; And indeed all was vanity and grasping for the wind. There was no profit under the sun. - Ecclesiastes 2:10-11

Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions. - Luke 12:15

There was nothing wrong with us wanting a house. But it was very wrong of me to think that it would bring us so much happiness on its own. The ideal life and fulfillment I was expecting from a house was unreasonable. 

That kind of happiness only comes from God’s address, not mine.

Inevitably, we become like kids on the day after Christmas. We’ve opened every package, played with every toy, and we’re already bored with them. The newness wore off in a day, all because we were expecting too much from them to begin with.

Most homes stop being dream houses the minute we walk into them. Reality inevitably sets in, and the “house porn” on the realtor’s website is now just a bunch of plaster and dry wall. 

We finally made it out of our dream house before it killed us. No, we didn't run screaming from it in the middle of the night like in the Shining or the Amityville Horror. When we left, it did take quite a bite out of our finances, and we had to sell for quite a bit less than we'd paid. But the wound was worth it for the lesson we learned.

We’re in a new place now, in a much smaller city. We’re renting a little one-story house we’re hoping to buy soon. We're in a little neighborhood where we hardly ever lock our front door. It's pretty boring compared to city life, but that’s just fine with me.

I’ve discovered what really makes a “dream house”. The dream is not the house, it’s the people you put in it. Regardless of the size or location, those people are what makes life worthwhile. 

Everything else is just a dream. And all that glitters is not a golden house.

Our dream house was a 120-year old 3-story Victorian home. It was just a few blocks away from one of the loveliest parks in the city and the same distance from the church I pastored. I could literally walk to work, and did so on many mornings. How convenient!

Unlike the other brick houses that lined the streets nearby, this one was painted light yellow and stood apart from the rest. Plaster reliefs of baby angels wrapped around the base of the house. They represented the children of the original owners, making the structure even more unique. It also had a three-car garage at the back of it. Few houses in this older section of town had one as large, and many people resorted to parking on the street. But not us! On just an average salary, we had bought one of the nicest places to live in the area. 

I had always dreamed of owning a Victorian home. I had performed the role of Prof. Henry Higgins from the musical My Fair Lady right before we moved to our new city. So I was primed to live the life of the English gentleman, sipping tea in my beautiful old house. I loved the old wood, the stained glass windows, and our “penthouse suite” for my wife and me on the top floor. We’d be sequestered away from the noise of our little girls playing below us. It all seemed so ideal.

But it turned out to be anything but ideal. Our “Golden House”, as our little girls came to call it, was not so golden. In fact, our dream house almost killed us, quite literally. 

One afternoon I got a call at the church. It was Dawn, my wife, and she was sobbing hysterically. Finally I was able to make out enough of her words to understand what was happening.

“I fell…come home!”

Almost 20 years ago, my wife had been in a bad car accident that crushed her right leg. That ankle couldn’t turn at all. So as I ran the 5 blocks to my home, I knew what had happened.

When I got to the house, I found Dawn in the basement. She was headed to the washer and drier there, and had misjudged a step going down. She hit the concrete floor hard.

After getting her to the hospital, thankfully we learned nothing had been broken. However, that would be just the first of several falls for Dawn down those steps. We eventually moved the washer and drier up to the second floor, which helped a little. But the bottom line was a three-story house with narrow stairways were not meant for a woman who had challenges with mobility.

I also learned having your bedroom on the third-floor is not a good idea for a chubby guy in his mid-50s. There were a few days I wondered if I’d still be alive by the time I reached the top floor. Though I began on the stairway to the bedroom, I might end up on the stairway to heaven…

Then there was the city. Dawn and I always loved culture, restaurants, theater and all the things a great city has to offer. So living there, we felt like kids in a candy store. There was always some new restaurant to explore, always a show playing somewhere, and interesting people living all around us. It seemed ideal.

Except for crime. And taxes. Many cities are big on those, and ours was no exception. We had both in abundance.

One of our regular nightly diversions was watching the notifications on our community’s “Next Door App” alert us to all the recent shootings and hold-ups around us. One of us would hear gunshots, and I’d watch for the posts to pop up. I’d then calculate how close it was to our home. Many were within just a few blocks, some just down the street. 

We would occasionally get notices of some tax we hadn’t paid. Usually, we neglected to pay because the city had neglected to ever send a bill. Then one day, you get a notice you’re being sent to a collections agency, even though you still hadn’t received a bill yourself. 

Once we got a bill for trash pick-up. We were confused because we paid a refuse bill on time every month. But a lady on the phone informed us what we had paid was in fact only the garbage bill. There was completely different bill that was a tax for just having trash pick up available to us in the city. This bill was paying for the “possibility” our trash might be picked up. No kidding.

I’m sure they’re still probably working on a way to collect a tax on our taxes. 

All of this added together was a painful lesson on the difference between perception and reality. After we first moved to that city and were still living in an apartment, I walked down those very streets and fantasized about how wonderful living there would be. When we found the Golden House, we rejoiced and basically cried out, “Here, take our money” to the realtor. 

But the view from the outside of a situation is always much different from the inside. Nothing is ever quite what you expect…with houses, or with life.

The problem with so many of the things we want is it’s too often based on an illusion. We think a thing, a person, or a situation will bring happiness. But happiness is never found in those things outside of us.

Real happiness only happens from the inside out.

There’s an old fashioned Bible word for this foolishness: covetousness. The prohibition against coveting is actually the 10th and final commandment. It’s easily skimmed over in favor of the more R-rated commandments against murder or adultery. Simply wanting your neighbors stuff as opposed to stealing it or killing for it seems like no big deal in comparison.

But coveting is like a powerful drug. The addict never gets enough. Once he gets that one thing he’s obsessed over, he’s disappointed to realize it doesn’t fulfill his needs and he moves on to something more. The new car he’d wanted all his life now sits in the garage most days. She can’t even remember why she bought that purse now. That’s how coveting works: whatever you get, it’s never enough. You’re always left wanting something else, and even more addicted to your desires.

Whatever my eyes desired I did not keep from them. I did not withhold my heart from any pleasure, for my heart rejoiced in all my labor; And this was my reward from all my labor. Then I looked on all the works that my hands had done and on the labor in which I had toiled; And indeed all was vanity and grasping for the wind. There was no profit under the sun. - Ecclesiastes 2:10-11

Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions. - Luke 12:15

There was nothing wrong with us wanting a house. But it was very wrong of me to think that it would bring us so much happiness on its own. The ideal life and fulfillment I was expecting from a house was unreasonable. 

That kind of happiness only comes from God’s address, not mine.

Inevitably, we become like kids on the day after Christmas. We’ve opened every package, played with every toy, and we’re already bored with them. The newness wore off in a day, all because we were expecting too much from them to begin with.

Most homes stop being dream houses the minute we walk into them. Reality inevitably sets in, and the “house porn” on the realtor’s website is now just a bunch of plaster and dry wall. 

We finally made it out of our dream house before it killed us. No, we didn't run screaming from it in the middle of the night like in the Shining or the Amityville Horror. When we left, it did take quite a bite out of our finances, and we had to sell for quite a bit less than we'd paid. But the wound was worth it for the lesson we learned.

We’re in a new place now, in a much smaller city. We’re renting a little one-story house we’re hoping to buy soon. We're in a little neighborhood where we hardly ever lock our front door. It's pretty boring compared to city life, but that’s just fine with me.

I’ve discovered what really makes a “dream house”. The dream is not the house, it’s the people you put in it. Regardless of the size or location, those people are what makes life worthwhile. 

Everything else is just a dream. And all that glitters is not a golden house.